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happiness savedFeel so empty when I see Y姿姐's luggage cause she will be back Tainan tomorrow morning. I truly love this funny girl like her just because of her good character and her smile (and pretty sure any of you will agree with me if you guys having chance knowing each other), although we know each other less than 5 months. Hope anything happened to her in the future goes well and God blesses her in any case!
        转载-上帝的无奈美国著名牧师葛培理的女儿安妮于911后被美国某电视台邀请出席节目。 主持人单刀直入地问：“为何神会让此等悲剧发生？” 某年，有人提出：“学校内不可祈祷，因为学校应宗教中立，学校无权要求学生祈祷。” 成年人为社会订下以上种种「社会制度」后，我们又要追问：“为甚么现今孩子没有良知？为何孩子持枪杀人？为何13岁的孩子已为人父母？为甚么911惨剧要发生？” 神无奈地答：“孩子呀！是你们不许我踏入你们的生命。”
有趣的是，人们离弃神，却又质问神为何整个世界正走向地狱的门口。 有趣的是，我们相信报纸所说的，却质疑圣经上所说的。 有趣的是，你可以透过电邮发出笑话，并且很快被广传，但当你发出与神有关的信息时，人们却犹豫。 有趣的是，不雅及色情的文章在网上自由地发放，但在学校及工作环境中，对于神的公开讨论却被抑制。
... 若细心思索，不难发现这一切是我们自己做成的，我们亲手摧毁了自己所栽种的! see u, JeffThis is a last hug to my coworker Jeff cause he leaves us and goes back to USA today! Sigh... saying goodbye is sooooooooo hard... I dount like the feeling any more. one world, one dreamCongratulations Beijing of China!
The world knows taday, 8 Aug 2008, is special for every Chinese cause 29th Olympics is opening right now in Beijing!!!
 Forever Friends
You'v tasted bitter defeat and sweet success
You want it all and you settle for nothing less
You'v tried harder than the rest
You'v become one of the best
This is the time you'll remember for all your life
Forever friends
in harmony
as the whole world joins and sees
Days of unity and peace
forever though the years
We'll hear the cheers
joy and laughter everywhere
We're toghter here to share
forever friends
You'll meet all races, see faces you'v never seen
People from parts of the world you'v never been
And you'll feel it in your heart
We spent too much time apart
This is the time you'll remember for all your life
No matter where we are or go
No matter what we hope for or know
No matter how we word our paryer
There is one dream and one world we share
Forever friends! a reminder to myselfHave you angered when you are failed in some ways? And what's your reaction at the moment generally? Humiliation? Or criticism?...In other words, have you felt disappointed for self sometimes? Perhaps at the moment when your temper is out of control; perhaps at the moment when the person you love feels hurt because of your terrible words...
A special and wonderful way is learned from a person I know who has way of restoring all the worse! You won't be berated, humiliated or criticized and you won't be asked for resolutions, recommitments, even promises to try harder. What is going on? He just takes us aside and asks us to reaffirm our love for Him, like he does it as before. It is a sentence that my eyes and my heart both are catched.
Much appreciate for my friend sharing this good book with me. Hope the way can be remembered and well done in any case.
哗啦啦啦，下雨了幸福
就像盒子里的巧克力糖
什么滋味？
充满想象
失望
是偶尔拨不通的电话号码
多试几次
总会回答
哗啦啦啦啦啦啦，下雨了……阴雨连绵的梅雨六月，需要一些温暖围绕！ pray for China在人类的竞技运动中，每打破0.1秒、甚至是0.01秒的世界记录，都不知道背后要付出怎样的代价，比如时间、努力或者运气，等等等等，才能最终达成梦想。可是，可是，可是……老天爷却一次又一次地、轻而一举地，就打破了自然界的规律：好像2008年初中国南方的大雪，眼下又发生了始料未及的四川地震……真的不敢再多想，让这一切就到今天停止吧；无论如何，我都愿意献上最真诚地祷告，保佑那些受到伤害、失去亲人的无辜同胞，终能重新振作幸福生活；保佑这个温暖的国家，国泰民安，顺顺利利！
因为，我坚定地相信：一切灾难的背后，都蕴藏着无限的祝福！
没有人愿意遭遇灾难、承受痛苦，可也因着这些的存在，令某些容易被忽略的事情变得信实：比如我们还有自由的呼吸，比如每天的太阳的都是新的……感谢上帝吧，感谢他赐予我们每个全新的一天；感谢他赐予我们欢乐，也赐予痛苦；感谢他赐予我们智慧，带领我们在不同的境遇中学习不同的功课！ 感恩，就是这次的功课！
2008/6/22 17:28 Cinderella...... I will dance with Cinderella While she is here in my arms Cause I know something the prince never knew Oh, I will dance with Cinderella I don't want to miss even one song Cause all to soon the clock will strike midnight And she'll be gone ...... ...... This is a song touthing my heart in Steven Curtis Chapman's concert and my tears rolled down as soon as I heard it yesterday. He said all thoughts about it had been from his 2 youngest daughters adopted in China. One night, he was too much work to studio and writing songs but his girls just wanted to play. They were pulling at him and putting on her dress for practice her dancing cause there was a ball at a castle they needed to go to. However, Steven, the father, got frustrated and was angry because of too tired and said "No, go to bed right now!" Finally, they had to go to bed but never stop and said "Story, tell us a story, daddy~~" No time for story, 2 little girls wanted to sleep, did it, went to bed!!!!! Nevertheless, he thoughts about his older daughter after awhile and how quickly the time was...so he does not wanna to miss one memont being with the daughters cause he knows all to soon the clock will strike midnight and she will be gone one day...
......Something sad happens today. Pretty sure I'm not anger but feel a little bit disappointed about the whole picture. Anyway, I know the Lord is right being there with me and everything in control, ALWAYS! depends on ur mindI was listening a speech yesterday that a topic about "Influence" had been sharing by a HR Director from Johnson Co. Ltd. What a coincidence that I'm reading an Eng book rencently from Dale Carnegie "How to Develop Self-Confidence & Influence People by Public Speaking". To be honesty, I'm never short of self-confidence but it is a big topic for me about how to be influence and I am looking it for being with me, always!
That's true, the emotion depends on ur mind to have a choice, for gentle or for anger at one second moment. Every body knows this the simplest principle, however, ....hrmm, let me tell u a touched story I'v heard...
A couple had a own child when they became old. One day, the baby drank a bottle of water unknown while he was at home alone. Unfortunately, he died of it as well as he was on way the hospital. his mother was heart-stricken and could not believe the incredible truth, but she had to tell his father what was happening actually. He was shocked in his office at once and got to there minutes later. What do u think his first words to his wife? And, how about u if u were the husband? I could not believe it was "I love u" he said!!! Unbelievable, right???
Sometimes, ppl may not change the reality but can control something inner of self. It just depends on u and ur mind. Yes! 日记昨天遇到的一件事情，着实又让我抓狂了一把。回头想想，这情绪已经很久没来骚扰过了，唉……如果把真实的场景描述出来，真难以想像大家的表情：不置可否？难以理解？？滑稽可笑？？？可是，可是，可是……就是有一些事情会让我不知所措、难以自制、情绪大乱呀！
老鼠--最大的软肋，哪怕小小的插图都不可以，立刻、马上、全体消失 《Tom & Jerry》--噩梦的开始，想失眠的话就尽量看吧 青椒--这的味道令我窒息，所以与之混在一起的统统置若罔闻
皮蛋--更是绝缘体，只因为小时候的一次呕吐经验 咖啡--它的果效只是个传说，从来没在我身上发挥过任何作用 运动--被我定义为是通往幸福的路径 棉被--无论春夏秋冬一定必不可少，因为它就是"安全感" 眼神儿--从小到大视力一路保持最佳，可直到现在仍然不懂得看路、看人 东南西北--就是"晕头转向"的代名词，依靠左右和感觉也足够了 迷糊--生活写照，今天忘钥匙，明天忘电话，如果有一天齐活儿才怪事儿呢 计划--工作的状态，极度无法忍受"不知道明天要做什么"，否则神经错乱 …… …… 我知道，我知道，我怎么不知道！我也讨厌抓狂的情绪，不喜欢沉不住气的表现……可有些东西与生俱来、力不从心呀 smile, my sweetMy sweet tells me she has arrived Australia in safety. This's the first time in her life to take a flight. Thanks god everything is fine!
 She has been planning studying aboard for 2-year long. I know how working hard she is especially in language and the major preferred. It is like the Chinese saying goes: "Practice makes perfect." I am so happy her dream to be true finally. I estimate she doesn't feel very well in a new environment and everything seems like unconfortable such as food, life habit, no friends, no family etc cause there is not home of our own. I understand how feel bad u r and I understand everything is much more difficult than ever in the begining as well, however, u r such a nice girl in my mind and I'm sure lots of good friends must be around u like here in the near future. Just smile when u feel lonely, and talk to me on MSN when u r down or troubles come...Remember to listen my favorite song "Raise me up" when u r weary! Something bad must be gone quickly, trust me!
Love ya, my sweet heart. Hope to meet u in Australia soon!  言寡尤，行寡悔子曰：“事君数(cu4)，斯辱矣；朋友数(cu4)，斯疏矣。”--《论语.里仁篇》
顾名思义，我想众所周知的“豪猪哲学”即是最佳的解释吧。无论是对朋友还是亲人，都应该把握一个分寸，适度为最好。
有一群豪猪，大家挤在一起过冬。它们老有一个困惑，就是不知道大家在一起以一个什么样的距离最好？离得稍微远点吧，冬天就冷，互相借不着热气儿，大家就往一起凑凑凑凑；结果一旦凑近了，彼此的刺都扎着对方了，就又开始往远，但是再远的话，大家又觉得寒冷；又想借助别人的温暖，就有再凑；凑着凑着又受伤了，然后再拉远……多少次磨合以后，豪猪们终于找到了一种最恰如其分的距离。那就是，在彼此不伤害的前提下，保持着群体的温暖。
子曰：“多闻阙疑，慎言其余，则寡尤；多见阙殆，慎行其余，则寡悔；言寡尤，行寡悔，禄在其中矣。”--《论语.述而篇》
顾名思义，孔老夫子要我们多闻、多见、慎言、慎行；一个人如果在说话里面少了很多抱怨，在行为中少了很多让自己后悔的经验，做事就能成功了。道理总是说起来简单，做起来难，不容易达到啊！所以借鉴一下别人的经历，总会带来一些启发的。
有一个坏脾气的小男孩，一天到晚在家里发脾气，特别任性，跟家人经常摔摔打打。有一天，他爸爸希望想个办法让他可以改善，就拉他到他家的篱笆旁边说‘儿子，你以后这样，你以后每跟家人发一次脾气，你就往篱笆上敲一根钉子，看看你到底发多少次脾气。’这孩子想说，那怕什么的，我就看看吧……嚷嚷一通儿，梆，自己敲一个钉子，嚷嚷一通儿，梆，又敲一个钉子……一天下来，自己一看‘哎呀，一堆钉子’自己也觉得有些不好意思了。他爸爸说‘你看，你要克制了吧？你这儿一天说了多少错话，跟大家发多少火儿啊’。儿子问要怎么克制呢？爸爸说你就争取一天不发脾气，你要是能做到一整天没发一次脾气，那你就可以把你敲的钉子拔下来一根。原来这小男孩已经密密麻麻得钉了一片的钉子了，原来是发一次脾气钉一根，现在要一天不发脾气才能拔一根，多难呀，就学会了克制！不断地克制，觉得真难，但是他想把钉子拔关，就克制克制……等到他把篱笆上所有的钉子都拔光的时候，他终于觉得自己已经学会克制了，可以不发脾气了。他发自内心、欣喜地去告诉他爸爸，‘爸爸，你去看看，篱笆上的钉子已经都拔光了，我现在不发脾气了’。他爸爸与他一起来到篱笆旁边，爸爸又对他说了一句话‘孩子，你看一看，篱笆上的钉子都已经拔光了，但是那些洞永远地留在了那里。其实你每向你的亲人、朋友发一次脾气，就是往他们的心上打了一个洞，钉子拔了你可以道歉，但是那个洞永远不能消除。’
所谓“先行其言而后从之”，人在做当下一件事，哪怕是凭着冲动做的事情，都先想一想‘再往远会怎么样呢’？说话要用脑子，做事要考虑后果，也就是孔老夫子所说的“言寡尤，行寡悔”的意义所在吧！
不是每件事情都要面对“覆水难收”的无奈状况，但敢于回头面对事实的勇气一定要有，用心思考到底出了什么问题、为什么会这样。。。这里所有的文字既是与朋友的一点点分享，也是敦促自己不断改善与自醒，毕竟在一种新观念植入之前，需要依靠好习惯的养成。持续学习与习惯思考可以让我们心变得更宽广，因为心有多大，舞台就有多大！
外白渡桥Moving 外白渡桥 is live by oriental channel now. Many of precious pic r showing in TV which is from early age to present. Let me feel sooooooo touched and warm. It's leaving where has standed on the Huangpu River more than 100 years because of special reason. It has been a typical symbol of Shanghai. I love it cause it's a most attractive buliding in my mind when I was a kid. Suddenly, I remembered my father had taken a pic for me on this bridge several years ago. Lucky!
Time's up for this TV program and 外白渡桥 goes back to be repaired. Hope everything goes well & welcome back next year.
forgivenessFirst time I got the word frogiveness 4-year ago & it was heard from Dr. Liu who is a director in my current company because of a question--how to be enjoyed with a person felt bad in working? He answered me after thinking for a while--"Forgave it". I admit that I cannot understand what his words & the real meaning until now.
Second time is right now here when I'v heard it with a clear voice from my mind. I know it cannot be ignorance any more this time. In fact, something terrible happenes this week and I am getting in annoyance. I totally confuse what is going on so that I must ask for a help. Rainbow, one of my trustiness gfs, is no doubt a right person. She is clear-eyes as well as I tell her the details. Not only is lesson-learn awared of this matter, but she gives me some useful tips to overcome it--be myself.
I wish to thank Dr. Liu for sharing the thoughts and to thank my Rainbow for help me out in this matter. Also, special thanks to the god planing angels always around me anytime. Everything goes back original. sigh...Last night, it took me several hrs to chat kinds of weird topic with a young girl like "if I were u...". I knew my serious words had let her feels upset as well but I was honesty even though I had felt a little bit frustrated indeed after talking. Sorry, I were not "u" & I could not match the all what u thought cause I am a person who I am, like I still would like to share the wonderful time between us even if u r never the same as me, right? Pls accept all including the positive and negative if possible. Okay? "Different ppl have different personalities"--I believe this is a real truth between the ppl in the world no matter who the person is. Everyone has the right to be friend with a person preferred. However, it doesn't mean everything should be the same definitely, such as personalities, habits, taste and even lifestyle. This is of couse NOT for certain.
Sleepless last night leads me to get headache & feel tired today, sigh... westlifeRaise Me Up
--this song is for the ppl who died in 911 accident
when i am down and my soul so weary
when troubles come and my heart burdened be
then, i am still and wait here in the silence
until u come and sit awhile with me
u raise me up
so i can stand on mountains
u raise me up
to walk on stormy seas
i ma strong when i ma on ur shoulders
u raise me up
to more than i can be
When u tell me that u love me
i wanna call the stars down from the sky
i wanna live a day that never dies
i wanna change the world only for u
all the improssible i wanna do
i wanna hold u close under the rain
i wanna kiss ur smile and feel the pain
i know what's beautiful looking at u
in a world of lies u r the truth
and baby every time u touch me
i become a hero
i'll make u safe no matter where u r and bring u
everything u ask for nothing is above me
i am shining like a candle in the dark
when u tell me that u love me
i wanna make u see just what i was
show u the loneliness and what it does
u walked into my life to stop my tears
everything is easy now i have u here
in a world without u
i would always hunger
all i need is ur love
to make me stronger
"When u tell me that u love me" from Westlife was heard last weekday by chance and felt so wonderful at that moment. It is popular and sung too many times up to date but no one gives me a great impression but this boy band. I SwearThis is a very good song from All 4 One. Enjoy the listening.
i swear
by the moon and the stars in the sky
and i swear
like the shadow that's by your side
i see the questions in your eyes
i know what's weighing in your mind
you can be sure i know my part
coz i'll stand beside you through the years
you'll only cry those happy tears
and though i make mistakes
i will never bread your heart
and i swear
by the moon and the stars in the sky
i'll be there
i swear
like the shadow that's by your side
i'll be there
for better or worse
till death to us part
i'll love you with every beat of my heart
and i swear
i'll give you everything i can
i'll build your dreams with these two hands
we'll hang some memories on the walls
and when
just the two of us are there
you won't have to ask if i still care
coz as the time turns the page
my love won't age at all
and i swear
by the moon and the stars in the sky
i swear
like the shadow that's by your side
i'll be there
for better or worse
till death do us part
i'll love you with every beat of my heart
and i swear
nothing, nothing, nothingHey u guys, pls do NOT check the web link "I" send to u cause I send nothing. It is FAKE!
Most of friends asked me "what is the web site 'u' send to me for?????" No, it was not me, of course NOT! Oppositely, I'm totally lost.
 Ys, I got this web link from a friend a few days ago and checked it out. However, nothing in it! Unfortunately, I'v gotten the same question above from different ppl until now. I'm curious as well what is happening????? Trust me, it has taken me too much trouble. I doubt it is virus but nothing goes wrong with my laptop. So sorry for all the happenings! However, pls reset ur MSN password asap if u guys already did. At the same time, thx for one of my friend's reminder and help me out!!!
Once again, sorry for bother u guys.  no apologies"No Apologies" is a series training about the truth of sex, love & marriage. Last year, around 30 ppl in SMIC were trained by the trainer from Focus on Family of USA. All of attendees in this class are required to be a trainer after training. I'm happy to be the one, because something useful are not only learned, but also many of ppl will benefit from it.
I was teaching unit 5 AIDS this afternoon. It was the first time for me to talk the topic AIDS with others in public, although this kind of disease seemed like far from our life. Fortunately, I felt good. Of course, everything would not be fine without register's participation in game, Thx for their attention and encouragement during my time. Thanks a lot!  |
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